Many of us equate fighting and conflict and yet, nothing says they have to be the same thing. For instance, we might figure that fighting for something we want or believe in is the only way to get it. On the other hand, if we share our wants and the things we believe in with the intention of hearing the other person’s – and having a conciliatory dialogue with her or him – we might find instead that there is no need to fight.
What are you fighting for that you may not need to?