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Author Archives: Cinnie Noble

THE CONFLICT REVISIT

How many times – after an interpersonal conflict has occurred – have you said to yourself, “I wish I had said that or I wish I hadn’t said that”? It’s the sort of recrimination that stays with us and we … Continue reading

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WE CAN’T CHANGE WHAT HAPPENED

This quote applies to just about everything I guess 😊 And, it is used here in our conversation today as it relates to interpersonal conflict. There have been so many times after interpersonal conflicts that I’ve wanted a do-over!  I think of … Continue reading

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THE STORM IS MAKING ME TIRED

In a wonderful book entitled The Boy, the Mole, the Fox and the Horse by Charlie Mackesy, there are many quotes in it that touch me. One of them shows a boy on a horse and he clearly looks beleaguered. He says “This storm … Continue reading

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BEING KIND IN CONFLICT

In the midst of interpersonal conflict, it’s difficult to be kind to the other person – no matter how kind a person we may usually be. It is also difficult to be kind to ourselves. It’s understandable that when our … Continue reading

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PAUSE and REFLECT

Two things that come to mind that many of us have challenges with when someone provokes us, are how to pause and to reflect when emotions are bubbling up inside us and we cannot really think straight – if at all. … Continue reading

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