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Category Archives: Conflict Habits

Developing New Conflict Habits

Posted on January 23, 2015 by Cinnie Noble

Until we learn new conflict habits to replace our destructive ones, we will miss the chance to get what we need – and what the other person needs – to live and work compatibly and in peace. Identifying which of … Continue reading →

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Fleeing When In Conflict

Posted on September 11, 2012 by Cinnie Noble

One of the ways many of us deal with interpersonal conflict as soon as we get a whiff of it or it begins to evolve is to take flight. We may want to rise above it and just get away … Continue reading →

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Name-Calling

Posted on December 13, 2011 by Cinnie Noble

Even though we know that name-calling sounds infantile, sometimes in the heat of anger, we realize we have resorted to blaming with words that hurt, or the other person is verbally attacking us. Unfortunately, the sentiments experienced in these words … Continue reading →

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Our Conflict Habits

Posted on December 6, 2011 by Cinnie Noble

Habits we use when it comes to interpersonal conflicts are like other habits that we come to repeat without much thought. They are rote behaviours that reflect what we have learned about how to cope with situations. Conflict habits have … Continue reading →

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