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Author Archives: Cinnie Noble

ADRHub Virtual Book Club – Conflict Management Coaching: The CINERGY Model

I am very excited to tell you that Jeff Thompson  one of the co- creators of ADRHub.com Werner Institute -  has kindly invited me to co-lead a virtual book club on my book:  Conflict Management Coaching: The CINERGY™ Model.  Below … Continue reading

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Thinking about whether to raise the issue

Not all of us know when, whether or how to be proactive and raise a conflictual issue with a person with whom we have an inner conflict. It’s a tough call at times and it takes some self-reflection to consider … Continue reading

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True or not so true conflict story-telling

When we have had a dispute with another person, it is sometimes the case that the facts about what happened become distorted. This depends for instance, on how hurt and offended we feel, our relationship with the other person, our … Continue reading

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Regrets After Conflict

Having regrets about what happened in a conflict feels lousy. Our regrets are often remorse for things we wished we had said or done differently or not at all. Such ruminations generally trigger off a range of reactions in us … Continue reading

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Forgetting About “It”

Intertwined with the notion of resilience and moving past the feelings and thoughts that emerge from our disputes is whether we can actually forget about what occurred. Or, do we store the emotional impact and the impressions we make about … Continue reading

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